一句温暖的话

刚刚有两个自称是川大的师生来到我的办公室,他们轻声细语、客气有加,说能不能在我们单位提供个场所给他们,方便职工们免费的医疗咨询之类的,他们出具了介绍信等等,一听,就知道是变相的宣传或推销的,这是在办公室遇到的最反感的事情。但是人家笑脸相迎,我也要以礼相待啊,经过我反复的说明和拒绝,他却仍在耐心地说服我。我只好请示领导了,虽然明明知道结果是拒绝,但是,为了善意地让他走,我只能这样了。

一句温暖的话

预料之中,他再次遭到拒绝了,路过的领导也请他走,他仍很想有礼貌地想把话说完,但是,他被“请你出去”之类的话打断了,支支吾吾很狼狈地退到了门外,很无辜地、很纳闷地、也很惶恐地说了一句,“你们素质……”,没有等他说完,他已经完全被强烈的语气赶到了门外……,当时我捏了一把汗,我想,不管他是否是川大的老师,不管他是否是搞推销的,这对他而言都是一次羞辱,他毕竟也只是为了生存,为了工作,也没有恶意地伤害谁。

果真,他是心理受到了刺激,也证明了他可能也不经常出去受这样的冷言冷语,五分钟后,他又回来了,他想到领导那里讨个说法,因为他觉得自己受到了莫大的侮辱,他想不通,他什么地方让我们这样对他了,他一直是很礼貌的。

我想,不管什么职业,不管是高低贵贱,每个人都有自己最起码的尊严,如果这个尊严已经被践踏得麻木了,那已经是不值得尊重的了,他的回头,让我觉得他还是需要尊重的。于是,我诚恳地代那位给予他严肃口气的领导说了声“对不起”,不管怎样,我想这应该是我能做到的,一声道歉,可以让一个初次遭遇社会冷遇的人感到一丝温暖,也让他在体会生存艰辛的路上也有理解和体谅,“请别放在心里去”,我这样对他说,他终于释怀地离开了我的办公室,走的时候,他留下了感动的笑容。

我如今坐在宽大的办公室,享受着安逸的生活,看看窗外,那车水马龙,那些正在为自己生计奔波劳碌的人们,他们每天要面对些什么,为了生存,他们要怎样与生活的苦恼和悲哀抗争呢,每个人都有每个人的内心世界,不管他们是在社会中扮演什么样的角色,我想,他们的灵魂应该是平等的。

一句温暖的话,并不会太奢侈。语言是灵魂撞击出来的 火花。

也许每颗灵魂都有机会和别的灵魂产生共鸣和吸引。

但是并不是每次撞击都有美丽的火花。

这一小小的角落留下的,

也仅仅是一瞬间的辉煌。

一年365天,

重复那么久,

地久天长的时候,

是不是还能记起某年某月某天你灵魂的轨迹。

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非常经典有深度的电影英文台词

1.一个人总要走陌生的路,看陌生的风景,听陌生的歌,然后在某个不经意的瞬间,你会发现,原本是费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就那么忘记了。

One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.

2.幸福,不是长生不老,不是大鱼大肉,不是权倾朝野。幸福是每一个微小的生活愿望达成。当你想吃的时候有得吃,想被爱的时候有人来爱你。

Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.

3.爱情是灯,友情是影子,当灯灭了,你会发现你的周围都是影子。朋友,是在最后可以给你力量的人。

Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.

4.我爱你不是因为你是谁,而是我在你面前可以是谁。

I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.

5.爱情,要么让人成熟,要么让人堕落。

Love makes man grow up or sink down.

6.举得起放得下的叫举重,举得起放不下的叫负重。可惜,大多数人的爱情,都是负重的。

If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.

7.我们每个人都生活在各自的过去中,人们会用一分钟的时间去认识一个人,用一小时的时间去喜欢一个人,再用一天的时间去爱上一个人,到最后呢,却要用一辈子的时间去忘记一个人。

We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.

8.一个人一生可以爱上很多的人,等你获得真正属于你的幸福之后,你就会明白一起的伤痛其实是一种财富,它让你学会更好地去把握和珍惜你爱的人。

One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.

9.年轻的时候会想要谈很多次恋爱,但是随着年龄的增长,终于领悟到爱一个人,就算用一辈子的时间,还是会嫌不够。慢慢地去了解这个人,体谅这个人,直到爱上为止,是需要有非常宽大的胸襟才行。

When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.

10.当明天变成了今天成为了昨天,最后成为记忆里不再重要的某一天,我们突然发现自己在不知不觉中已被时间推着向前走,这不是静止火车里,与相邻列车交错时,仿佛自己在前进的错觉,而是我们真实的在成长,在这件事里成了另一个自己。

When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.

11.离开我就别安慰我,要知道每一次缝补也会遭遇穿刺的`痛。

If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.

12.曾经拥有的,不要忘记。不能得到的,更要珍惜。属于自己的,不要放弃。已经失去的,留作回忆

Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.

13.我喜欢并习惯了对变化的东西保持着距离,这样才会知道什么是最不会被时间抛弃的准则。比如爱一个人,充满变数,我于是后退一步,静静的看着,直到看见真诚的感情。

I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.

14.男人的爱是俯视而生,而女人的爱是仰视而生。如果爱情像座山,那么男人越往上走可以俯视的女人就越多,而女人越往上走可以仰视的男人就越少。

Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.

15.好的爱情是你通过一个人看到整个世界,坏的爱情是你为了一个人舍弃世界。

Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.

16.在自己面前,应该一直留有一个地方,独自留在那里。然后去爱。不知道是什么,不知道是谁,不知道如何去爱,也不知道可以爱多久。只是等待一次爱情,也许永远都没有人。可是,这种等待,就是爱情本身。

We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.

17.有谁不曾为那暗恋而痛苦?我们总以为那份痴情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。有一天,暮然回首,我们才发现,它一直都是很轻,很轻的。我们以为爱的很深,很深,来日岁月,会让你知道,它不过很浅,很浅。最深和最重的爱,必须和时日一起成长。

Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.

18.在这个世界上,只有真正快乐的男人,才能带给女人真正的快乐。

In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness

19.女人如果不性感,就要感性;如果没有感性,就要理性;如果没有理性,就要有自知之明;如果连这个都没有了,她只有不幸。

If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.

20.一段不被接受的爱情,需要的不是伤心,而是时间,一段可以用来遗忘的时间。一颗被深深伤了的心,需要的不是同情,而是理解。

An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.